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Why do people exhaust me?
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 5/4/22 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 5/4/22

Why do people exhaust me?

People are hard work at the best of times, but especially when you’re outside your ‘window of tolerance’.

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Feeling ‘safe ENOUGH’ in worried times
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 24/1/22 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 24/1/22

Feeling ‘safe ENOUGH’ in worried times

How trying to feel ‘perfectly safe’ can backfire when you’re in a worry spiral. And one idea for a different approach.

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Taking the pressure off (just a little)
by Graham Panther, Latest Articles Graham Panther 29/9/21 by Graham Panther, Latest Articles Graham Panther 29/9/21

Taking the pressure off (just a little)

A different way of thinking about those anxious, worried thoughts. . .

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Am I a terrible friend?
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 8/9/21 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 8/9/21

Am I a terrible friend?

It’s hard to keep in touch with friends right now. But maybe it’s all part of the process…

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What if I don’t have a comfort zone?
by Graham Panther, Best Articles Graham Panther 4/8/21 by Graham Panther, Best Articles Graham Panther 4/8/21

What if I don’t have a comfort zone?

When you’re having a hard time, it can feel like your comfort zone disappears completely…

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Am I a viable human? (A life-long scientific experiment)
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 3/8/21 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 3/8/21

Am I a viable human? (A life-long scientific experiment)

One way to lower the stakes when it comes to assessing your own self worth.

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Big feelings and relationships
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 23/11/20 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 23/11/20

Big feelings and relationships

When you can’t explain your feelings to your partner. (At least not in the moment.)

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Dealing with work stress (in a pandemic)
Graham Panther 10/8/20 Graham Panther 10/8/20

Dealing with work stress (in a pandemic)

My new rules for working from home, amidst the mush of 2020 life.

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Escaping the social media spiral
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 27/7/20 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 27/7/20

Escaping the social media spiral

I think my newsfeed might be depressed? Why (and how) I’m spending less time on social media.

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Finding it hard to feel productive?
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 16/6/20 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 16/6/20

Finding it hard to feel productive?

Productivity and self worth. Here’s one way out of this devilish trap.

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Escaping the perfectionist spiral
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 11/3/20 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 11/3/20

Escaping the perfectionist spiral

One thing to try when ‘good enough’ isn’t good enough.

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Preparing for the end-of-year crash
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 2/12/19 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 2/12/19

Preparing for the end-of-year crash

It's the same thing every year. Start with a bang, end with a crash, crawl your way to the New Year. But does it have to be that way?

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How to stop controlling everything
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 4/11/19 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 4/11/19

How to stop controlling everything

Worried about *every* little thing? Here's one strategy to unclench.

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by Honor Eastly, Best Articles Honor Eastly 7/10/19 by Honor Eastly, Best Articles Honor Eastly 7/10/19

When you feel like a total failure

Sometimes expecting things to suck for a while can help make Doom Town more manageable.

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by Graham Panther Graham Panther 26/8/19 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 26/8/19

Are you perfect? Or perfectly screwed?

When positive affirmations don’t help, here’s something else you can try…

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by Graham Panther Graham Panther 29/7/19 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 29/7/19

What to do when your head gets noisy

Stuck in your own head lately? You’re not the only one…

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How to handle a bad day
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 27/5/19 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 27/5/19

How to handle a bad day

So, you’ve woken up feeling awful. Here’s one thing you can try. . .

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Why do I feel lonely, even with my friends?
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 25/3/19 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 25/3/19

Why do I feel lonely, even with my friends?

Ever feel like you don't belong, even with your friends? Here's one not-so-little thing I tried, to feel more connected.

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How to defuse your panic button
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 11/2/19 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 11/2/19

How to defuse your panic button

What do you do when big, scary thoughts won’t leave you alone?

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When you're in survival mode
by Honor Eastly Honor Eastly 15/1/19 by Honor Eastly Honor Eastly 15/1/19

When you're in survival mode

Sometimes expecting things to suck for a while can help make Doom Town more manageable.

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