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When success = “i’m a fraud”
by Honor Eastly, Latest Articles Honor Eastly 24/11/21 by Honor Eastly, Latest Articles Honor Eastly 24/11/21

When success = “i’m a fraud”

Honor actually won the big fancy prize! Then had a meltdown!

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Am I a terrible friend?
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 8/9/21 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 8/9/21

Am I a terrible friend?

It’s hard to keep in touch with friends right now. But maybe it’s all part of the process…

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Encouragement for tense times
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 17/8/21 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 17/8/21

Encouragement for tense times

How my anxious pooch is helping me be more gentle with myself right now.

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Am I a viable human? (A life-long scientific experiment)
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 3/8/21 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 3/8/21

Am I a viable human? (A life-long scientific experiment)

One way to lower the stakes when it comes to assessing your own self worth.

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Am I depressed or just lazy?
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 3/5/21 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 3/5/21

Am I depressed or just lazy?

Existential Crisis Line #2. More of your questions answered.

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Am I allowed to be depressed?
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 8/2/21 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 8/2/21

Am I allowed to be depressed?

When your life looks good ‘on paper’, are you allowed to be depressed? The first issue of our new not-actually-advice column.

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The war with yourself
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 25/1/21 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 25/1/21

The war with yourself

Even when pain doesn’t ‘make sense’, it still hurts. What then…?

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Accepting the hard stuff
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 11/1/21 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 11/1/21

Accepting the hard stuff

On making friends with your own life. (Some assistance required.)

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Can you really love yourself?
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 22/12/20 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 22/12/20

Can you really love yourself?

Sometimes life feels unacceptable. So in those moments, how do you accept yourself?

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Fear of your own brain
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 29/6/20 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 29/6/20

Fear of your own brain

Can you get PTSD from your own feelings? When your brain’s fear response freaks you out.

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Coping mechanism? Or crutch??
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 25/2/20 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 25/2/20

Coping mechanism? Or crutch??

Check out the latest Big Feels Club podcast. We answer your questions!

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by Graham Panther Graham Panther 28/1/20 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 28/1/20

When you feel like a fake (even with your friends)

Solving one part of the ‘people + feelings’ equation, and how strangers can sometimes help you feel less strange.

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A New Year’s Eve Survival Guide
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 31/12/19 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 31/12/19

A New Year’s Eve Survival Guide

Not a fan of big, loud parties, but still want to take part in the ritual? A few thoughts for New Year’s Eve…

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Why do I feel awful for no good reason?
by Graham Panther, Best Articles Graham Panther 4/11/19 by Graham Panther, Best Articles Graham Panther 4/11/19

Why do I feel awful for no good reason?

Sometimes you feel awful for days, and have no idea why. Introducing the Long Slow-Twisting Shame Spiral.

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Why can’t I slow down, even when I’m exhausted?
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 7/10/19 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 7/10/19

Why can’t I slow down, even when I’m exhausted?

‘Feel the guilt and do less anyway'. The joys of hitting a wall.

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How a meditation retreat made me less afraid of people
by Graham Panther, Best Articles Graham Panther 9/9/19 by Graham Panther, Best Articles Graham Panther 9/9/19

How a meditation retreat made me less afraid of people

Four days alone with your thoughts. Sounds terrifying right? Or is it…?

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by Graham Panther Graham Panther 26/8/19 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 26/8/19

Are you perfect? Or perfectly screwed?

When positive affirmations don’t help, here’s something else you can try…

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Calming your inner critic
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 17/6/19 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 17/6/19

Calming your inner critic

An update on our never-ending quest to calm our collective inner critic. . .

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How to handle a bad day
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 27/5/19 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 27/5/19

How to handle a bad day

So, you’ve woken up feeling awful. Here’s one thing you can try. . .

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Why does praise make me cringe?
by Graham Panther Graham Panther 9/4/19 by Graham Panther Graham Panther 9/4/19

Why does praise make me cringe?

How to actually believe people when they tell you nice things.

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